TEENAGE LOVE

ASKING SOMEONE OUT

Asking someone out can be a difficult job for the first time. And when you are not sure if your partner feels the same ways it is all the more difficult. But don't wait for her to ask you out. Maybe she is shy or she also feels that you will ask her out. Believe me, this waiting game is not good. I am in no way telling you to hurry in a relationship. But take the initiatives when needed. Maybe you have flirted with her, she also flirted back. But nobody is sure enough if something is on. In these situations, don't hold back. Talk to her about it or you may remain waiting forever.

Yeah its hard. But if you are willing to take the risk do it. Like Nike says in its tagline "JUST DO IT". By the way don't take this tagline too seriously.

Why am I telling its hard? You know that. That tension and that nervousness. You seem to go weak at the knees. Its risky as if the person you love is a friend, you have the chance of ruining the friendship. Though if you are strong friends it should not do any harm to your friendship. And if she also has the same feelings than you have struck gold.

On the topic how to ask, I would advice start a chat with something common topic or asking about any general question like "how are you?" Try to look as relaxed as possible. Ask confidently while talking other matters. Also try to make excuses. Like say if you go to take some classes together. Ask her if she would like to go with you after the class as you both are free. Try making ideas according to circumstances.

If you cannot say it give her a note personally. If you even cannot do that then send her a SMS asking her out. But best is to ask her out personally.

And don't get dejected if you are rejected. Move on. And if you cannot live without her try to get as much information as you can and email me from the contact us below. I will help you out quickly. Best of luck. Have a nice date.

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