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SURVIVING FIRST FIGHT

Lets be truthful. After all the love we have fights. And the first fight is the most important one. How you handle the first fight and do afterwards decide the fate of a relationship. It can have a positive or negative impact and it depends on you.

Causes of first fight:- Once the love settles down we tend to go back to our real life personalities. We don't treat our partners as special as we used to. Many things which people tolerate when they just fall in love become intolerable when love settles down. We then tend to think about own self more than our partner and so on.

Is it the end:- Surely some relationships end with the first fight but in my view they don't have the power of love. I really think that if we truly love someone then we should not separate just because of a fight. It should be taken as a step in evolution of a successful relationship.

Every person is different. We cannot expect our partner to exactly have the same likings and disliking as us. If you really love your sweetheart, then understand this fact and take her as she is. True lovers are those who can disagree but still hold hands.

So, try to understand your partner, listen to her and learn to love her as she is. It will eventually make you relationship stronger.

What not to do while fighting:-

Don't be violent and use physical power.
Don't bring up old issues.
Don't throw things at each other.

WHAT'S NEXT:- After all this fight communicate with each other and try to find out the cause of fight. Have a romantic mood set up and sort the things out. If you cannot decide who is right then compromise and don't let the matter out of control. If you compromise then a time will come when your partner will value your deed and will love you even more. Take it as a text for your relationship. The true lovers never fade away in these tests. Keep faith in your love and everything will be fine. And then concentrate in studies to get a good job to keep your partner well.

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